for me, this is shocking. for some, maybe not. it has apparently been confirmed that Christina Aguilera (my soulmate sister) and her husband of 5 years, Jordan Bratman have separated. they've been together since 2002 and i am so sad if this is true. her only statement about that matter is "Although Jordan and I are separated, our commitment to our son Max remains strong as ever," (via People) . . . i don't understand. i keep regularly up to date on Christina (cuz she is my soulmate sister, duhhh!) and i've seen recent pics of her and Jordy together several times . . . a recent trip to Rome, a brand new Ferrari . . . this is completely coming out of left field.
i truly thought they would make it. and maybe they will . . . there is certainly no harm in taking time to figure things out or regroup who you are . . . and i am secretly praying they reconcile and pull it back together. actually, i secretly pray that outcome for most couples who separate. it's sad when relationships end. is it because we're searching for something that is nearly impossible to attain?
i do believe that true love prevails. i do believe that it's possible to spend your entire life happily loving someone. i didn't at one point, i'm not going to lie. i didn't want to be naive about love so i had accepted that it was a nice notion but my heart didn't truly believe it. i do now though. for many reasons. one being how much i love my husband. we're not perfect and our relationship isn't perfect, but nothing is perfect. and i'm ok with that. what's important is that we make mistakes and learn from them so we can grow strongly together. my grandparents have been together since high school . . . so has Phil's. they are wonderful examples that it can be done.
dearest Christina,
i hope you're okay and that you and Jordan can work it out.
love justine
:( these things always break my heart, too. I'm with you on hoping that they are able to work things out. Theyve always seemed like such a solid couple.
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